Feeling considered changed my standards
I care a lot about how a relationship feels on ordinary days now.
Big moments are easy to notice. Birthdays, trips and anniversaries come with obvious opportunities to make someone feel important.
I think compatibility shows itself more often on regular Tuesdays. Does someone make space for your schedule? Do they ask how your day went and actually listen? Can you rely on the plans you make together?
Being considered does not mean being the centre of another person's world. I want both people to have full lives of their own.
It simply means feeling like there is a real place for you in that life. That quiet sense of mutual consideration has become one of the things I value most.
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